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  • Why Freelancers Need to Rethink ‘Success’?

    There’s a moment in every freelancer’s journey when opportunity stops feeling like a blessing and starts resembling a trap. You’ve worked hard, built a portfolio, earned referrals, and now clients are reaching out to you. The inbox buzzes with potential. The calendar is packed. You’re in demand.

    And yet, despite being fully booked, you find yourself entertaining the thought: “Maybe I could squeeze in one more project.”

    It feels logical, even noble. More work means more income. More income means more security. More clients means more growth. More growth means you’re “making it,” right?

    But that’s where the illusion begins.

    Infinity Is Not a Number

    In a recent post, Seth Godin wrote, “Infinity is a feeling and a concept built on the presumption that it can never be reached.” He wasn’t talking about freelancing specifically, but his insight couldn’t be more relevant.

    Infinity is not a number – Seth Godin

    When you constantly pursue “a few more” clients, “a few more” sales, “a few more” wins—without stopping to assess your capacity—you sign up for a journey that never ends. One more becomes two more. Two more becomes five. And before long, you’re sprinting on a treadmill that only speeds up, never stops.

    This isn’t ambition. It’s anxiety in disguise.

    Numbers Game Will Never End

    Freelancing is often tied to metrics—hours worked, projects delivered, income earned. And while numbers do matter, they can quietly become tyrants. You check how many leads came in this month. How many invoices were paid. How many followers you’ve gained. You start equating growth with progress and progress with worth.

    But here’s the truth: if you let numbers define your success, your finish line will always move just a little farther away.

    What Are You Trading?

    There’s a cost to every “yes.” When you say yes to one more client, what are you saying no to?

    • Deep focus on existing projects?
    • Quality time with loved ones?
    • Quiet evenings to recharge?
    • Your own creative pursuits that don’t pay but bring joy?

    Also Read: There’s No Such Thing as Free Lunch

    Overextending yourself can silently erode the very reasons you chose freelancing in the first place—flexibility, freedom, meaningful work.

    We live in a culture that glorifies hustle. But relentless hustle without boundaries doesn’t make you successful. It makes you replaceable. When you’re constantly on the edge of burnout, you don’t create your best work—you just survive the day.

    Sustainable Success vs. Infinite Growth

    What if you redefined success, not by how much you can accumulate, but by how deeply you can serve? What if you measured growth by the quality of your work, the strength of your relationships, and your sense of fulfillment?

    There’s nothing wrong with wanting to grow. But growth should have roots, not just reach. The goal isn’t to pile more on your plate—it’s to nourish what’s already there.

    Make Space, Not Just Money

    If the journey itself is sustaining you, as Seth Godin says, then great. Let it continue. But don’t lose sight of the fact that the journey is the destination. You don’t need to keep adding clients to prove your worth.

    Sometimes, the most powerful thing you can do is protect your time, say no with grace, and honor the work you’ve already committed to.

    More isn’t always better. Sometimes, more is just louder. And sometimes, enough is truly enough.

    Ask yourself: Are you chasing growth, or are you chasing infinity? One brings you closer to fulfillment. The other never arrives.

  • No Such Thing as Free Lunch

    You’ve probably heard the phrase, “There’s no such thing as a free lunch.” It’s an age-old adage, popularized in economics and everyday life, that carries a simple but powerful truth: nothing comes without a cost.

    This phrase—also known as TANSTAAFL (“There Ain’t No Such Thing as a Free Lunch”)—might’ve originated in the saloons of 19th-century America, where customers were offered “free” lunches with the purchase of a drink.

    But of course, the food was salty, which encouraged more drinking, and ultimately, more spending. The lunch wasn’t really free—it was baked into the cost.

    As a creative professional, I find myself thinking about this phrase often. Too often, in fact.

    When Clients Expect Free Work

    Some clients, perhaps unintentionally, approach collaborations with the assumption that small tasks, quick fixes, or even full projects can or should be done for free.

    Maybe it’s because it “won’t take long,” or they think, “It’s just a quick favor.” But let’s be clear: time, skill, and creativity are never free. When I spend my time and energy on your project, I’m not doing something else. That’s opportunity cost, plain and simple.

    Even when something is offered at no financial charge—like a consultation, a sample, or a revision—it still costs the provider. It costs time, tools, mental space, and sometimes, emotional energy.

    The Hidden Costs of “Free”

    Whether it’s in science, economics, or creative work, there’s always a cost somewhere. In economics, Milton Friedman used the “no free lunch” idea to illustrate opportunity cost: choosing one thing always means giving up something else.

    If I take time to do a “free” job for one client, I lose the opportunity to serve another client who values that same time—and is willing to pay for it.

    In short: somebody always pays. And when a professional absorbs that cost, it adds up—burnout, loss of revenue, and undervaluation of one’s own work.

    Respecting Professional Boundaries

    This isn’t to say we can’t be generous or flexible. There’s a time and place for goodwill, discounts, or going the extra mile. But when that generosity becomes an expectation rather than a rare exception, it crosses a line.

    Asking for free work is asking someone else to bear your cost.

    And just like the saloons of the past, you’ll still end up paying for it—whether in quality, time, or relationship strain.

    The Bottom Line

    If you value someone’s work, respect their time and expertise. Expect to invest in it—just as you would in any other service that helps your life or business thrive.

    So, the next time you’re tempted to ask for something “quick and free,” remember:

    There’s no such thing as free work. Not really.

    And if someone is offering you their time or talent? A little appreciation—and fair compensation—goes a long way.

  • Burnout Among Millenials

    The difference, then, is that those servants made it so that they didn’t have to work—not so that they could work more.

    – Anne Helen Peterson, Can’t Even

    In her book Can’t Even: How Millennials Became the Burnout Generation, Anne Helen Petersen explores a crisis deeply embedded in modern work culture: burnout.

    Millennials, often labeled as entitled or lazy, are in fact among the most overworked, underpaid, and emotionally drained generations in recent history.

    Their experience in corporate jobs reflects a broader systemic issue—one that has normalized overwork, blurred work-life boundaries, and romanticized the so-called hustle culture.

    Understanding Millennial Burnout

    Burnout is not simply exhaustion. As Petersen describes, it is a chronic state of physical, emotional, and mental depletion caused by excessive and prolonged stress.

    What differentiates millennial burnout from previous generations is its pervasiveness.

    Many millennials feel as though they are always working, whether by answering late-night emails, networking on LinkedIn, or engaging in unpaid “side hustles” to remain competitive.

    The capitalist ideal of productivity has reshaped not just how millennials work, but how they perceive their worth.

    A career is no longer just a means of financial stability—it has become an identity, a measure of personal success, and a source of self-worth. The result? An entire generation struggling with anxiety, fatigue, and disillusionment, yet unable to slow down.

    Factors Driving Burnout

    Hustle Culture and the Always-On Mentality

    Corporate work environments increasingly demand constant availability. Millennials grew up with the internet and social media, which blurred the line between personal and professional time.

    A simple Slack message at midnight or a weekend email is often expected to be answered immediately.

    Financial Insecurity and the Cost of Living Crisis

    Unlike their predecessors, millennials entered the workforce during or after the 2008 financial crisis. Stagnant wages, student debt, and skyrocketing living costs make financial stability elusive.

    Many feel they must work beyond standard hours just to survive, leading to overcommitment and eventual burnout.

    The Expectation of Passion-Driven Work

    Millennials have been conditioned to believe that work should be their passion. This belief, though seemingly positive, is a trap—it creates a mindset where stepping back feels like failure. Employers exploit this, expecting employees to overextend themselves “for the love of the job.”

    Lack of Work-Life Boundaries

    The traditional 9-to-5 job has evolved into a 24/7 commitment. With remote work and digital connectivity, corporate culture often pressures employees to be available at all times, erasing boundaries that previous generations enjoyed.

    The Psychological Toll

    Petersen highlights that burnout manifests in different ways: persistent exhaustion, inability to concentrate, cynicism towards work, and a sense of inefficacy.

    Many millennials experience “errand paralysis,” where even small tasks like replying to emails or scheduling a doctor’s appointment feel overwhelming. Instead of seeking help, they continue to push through, convinced that they should be able to handle it all.

    Breaking the Cycle

    Redefining Productivity

    Millennials need to unlearn the idea that productivity equals self-worth. Taking breaks, setting boundaries, and engaging in leisure should be seen as essential, not indulgent.

    Corporate Responsibility

    Organizations must recognize the dangers of burnout and actively work to change their culture. This means encouraging time off, respecting boundaries, and promoting realistic workloads instead of glorifying overwork.

    Therapy and Mental Health Awareness

    Normalizing conversations about mental health can help individuals recognize burnout and seek help before it escalates. Therapy, mindfulness, and work-life balance initiatives can be crucial in recovery.

    Millennial burnout is not an individual failure; it is a systemic issue driven by corporate expectations, economic instability, and the glorification of overwork.

    Can’t Even serves as a wake-up call—one that challenges both individuals and corporations to reassess their approach to work.

    If change does not happen, the burnout crisis will only deepen, affecting not just work performance but overall well-being and societal progress.